Sometimes it is okay to let go of the things you cannot control. Intentionally delaying some things in your life is okay as it tends to bring the best in you and helps you shave your perspective for the better. Our self worth is better when we get rid of the illusion of control and we focus on what is real and important. Learn to let go of illusions in your life and take charge of the things that bring out the best in you.
This is a positive ideal that will allows us time to process ideas and to reflect on decisions.